Questions are Answers
The more clear the question the more obvious the answer.
Forgiveness does not mean that you have done something wrong and I have decided to no longer care about it.
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True forgiveness means that we see that there was no wrong done at all.
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Everyone is on his or her own personal path. It is specific to exactly what is required for growth. Even the most horrendous events can be realized as growth opportunities for all involved. We must follow our paths, we cannot avoid it, and in so doing we find another piece to the ongoing puzzle of who we are. Seeing this, no one has done anything against us. They have simply followed the path they need to follow… and in interacting with them, everyone involved does the same.